Men! Where?!
They say in Egypt "The shadow of a man is better than the shadow of a wall". Now, they say something close to "we don't intend to get married because simply there are no more men to marry".
I Agree, to a certain extent. Of course some people (ladies) go to extreme judgments, but after all as Egyptians say "there is no smoke without a fire", and the sure thing is: there is a holocaust going about and few are the people who give it much attention, the rest are just "living it".
Where is the problem? I'd lie if I say that I know, but I could at least think out loud, right?
It all starts at childhood as stated earlier in this blog. I haven't met a spoiled male who doesn't have a massive amount of one and/or more of the following:
Add to the act of spoiling itself two another very strong factor, which is: The reign of material and superficial judgment. A healthy man normally thinks about career and commitment. The men living nowadays normally don't think about career nor commitment, they just think about "Job, Salary, Money, Luxury, peace of mind, minimum effort". Everything is getting more expensive so one has to cover himself, every man for himself, whoever pays more is my man. That my dear friend is a big funeral for your career. In a few years our CV will be a joke, Period.
A spoiled guy was used to have everything made for him during his life, was used to having a loose life, doing almost whatever he pleases whenever he pleases, nothing whatsoever to tie him to anything other than the school report at the end of the year which usually means spending the summer at the beach doing absolutely nothing more than fool around and taking pictures so that one returns home to boast about the cool summer he had which was full of fun, only to return to the school days in which one studies right before the exams, takes a heap of private lessons (which mean going out and having fun afterwards) and in the end he finds himself wasting 5 years or more of his life gaining the experience of a parrot, the looseness of an alley dog, and the brain of a sheep.
The above ladies and gentlemen DOES NOT WORK. It builds a generation of loose airheads who are unfit for work, and unfit for anything but what they are used to: having fun whenever and wherever they could, even at work, they work minimal and always complain that they are not taking what is theirs, their right, etc.. they are NOT serious, wasting their lives, seeking more fun all the time, not thinking for a moment about doing an effort even for their own selves!!
But that is not all men to be fair, there are a lot of real men out there who demand respect, and gain nothing but respect, because they DO sacrifice a lot not just for the sake of being professional, but for the sake of others as well.
That is on the career side... what about the other sides of a human being?
Let us take a break and will be back with more later inshaAllah.
I Agree, to a certain extent. Of course some people (ladies) go to extreme judgments, but after all as Egyptians say "there is no smoke without a fire", and the sure thing is: there is a holocaust going about and few are the people who give it much attention, the rest are just "living it".
Where is the problem? I'd lie if I say that I know, but I could at least think out loud, right?
It all starts at childhood as stated earlier in this blog. I haven't met a spoiled male who doesn't have a massive amount of one and/or more of the following:
- Lack of self confidence
- Inferiority complex which leads to ridiculous desire to feel important
- feeling that he is lacking something and always looking at other people's possessions
- Unclear targets in life
- constant indifference
- one or more documented personality disorders
Add to the act of spoiling itself two another very strong factor, which is: The reign of material and superficial judgment. A healthy man normally thinks about career and commitment. The men living nowadays normally don't think about career nor commitment, they just think about "Job, Salary, Money, Luxury, peace of mind, minimum effort". Everything is getting more expensive so one has to cover himself, every man for himself, whoever pays more is my man. That my dear friend is a big funeral for your career. In a few years our CV will be a joke, Period.
A spoiled guy was used to have everything made for him during his life, was used to having a loose life, doing almost whatever he pleases whenever he pleases, nothing whatsoever to tie him to anything other than the school report at the end of the year which usually means spending the summer at the beach doing absolutely nothing more than fool around and taking pictures so that one returns home to boast about the cool summer he had which was full of fun, only to return to the school days in which one studies right before the exams, takes a heap of private lessons (which mean going out and having fun afterwards) and in the end he finds himself wasting 5 years or more of his life gaining the experience of a parrot, the looseness of an alley dog, and the brain of a sheep.
The above ladies and gentlemen DOES NOT WORK. It builds a generation of loose airheads who are unfit for work, and unfit for anything but what they are used to: having fun whenever and wherever they could, even at work, they work minimal and always complain that they are not taking what is theirs, their right, etc.. they are NOT serious, wasting their lives, seeking more fun all the time, not thinking for a moment about doing an effort even for their own selves!!
But that is not all men to be fair, there are a lot of real men out there who demand respect, and gain nothing but respect, because they DO sacrifice a lot not just for the sake of being professional, but for the sake of others as well.
That is on the career side... what about the other sides of a human being?
Let us take a break and will be back with more later inshaAllah.
posted by Gold at 11:24 PM
1 Comments:
WOW!
Well evaluated :)
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